Just talk to her or just walk away.
Yeah, high school relationships don't last. The first relationship probably won't be your last.
Try not to comment on people's real life when you know nothing of them.
Just talk to her or just walk away.
Yeah, high school relationships don't last. The first relationship probably won't be your last.
Try not to comment on people's real life when you know nothing of them.
What kind of advice do you expect from us? I don't see how you get dumped and then feel the need to come and tell the HS community about it. Giving her gifts doesn't necessarily mean a successful relationship either. Oh well hope you sort it out~
hes not looking for advice
its just a rant
Haha, it's obvious he's just venting, but the fact that he bought her gifts seems to be the most important point to him.
Buying a girl gifts is a tricky business. If you buy us too much we'll resent you for trying to trap us and/or we'll think you think we can be bought. We'll also expect you to keep it up for as long as the relationship lasts. So don't start out with a lot of gifts or you'll regret that.
However, yeah, you buy your gf/bf Christmas and birthday presents. That's pretty normal, Luner, so don't brag about it. Maybe she got the impression that you felt that she owes you somehow, and the resentment built up over time, and she left.
If she gave you no explanation she's probably just trying to spare your feelings. She should probably tell you so you don't mess up the same way again, but she's a kid so she won't.
What can I say? People change and what worked once doesn't anymore. And high school age is a time when people change very fast so 3 years seems like quite a long time. Listen to sad songs. Write some bad poetry (but you might want to think twice before posting it on forums). Move on.
I believe you may be confusing "a relationship" with "prostitution" :rolleyes:
I took up Maple after giving up on an active sex and social life :D